“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words’ll never hurt me”.
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I don’t agree with that statement.
If you’re an individual who is pretty efficient and zoning out when people lash out comments meant to break your spirit, you may chant that to your merry heart’s content.
But what if you have heard things that put you down - over and over again? As a person in a toxic relationship, or as a child whose family member made it their business to shred your dreams for breakfast - some lasting damage can really be done.
One may not always think of it that way, however -
If you find yourself doubting your capabilities - and that is your norm;
If you find yourself constantly gravitating to people who continue to chip at your self esteem;
If its your norm to dodge opportunities because negative opinions echo in your mind;
That’s all negative programming and you are functioning with those opinions as your guideline.
Often times you might hear someone say “Be Positive!”
What does that mean when you’ve been programmed with the negative untruths of your past? All you might hear when told “be positive” is “smile and nod ’til this well-meaning person goes away”. All you might feel when told “You are so beautiful; you are awesome; you’re so TALENTED!” is *the sound of crickets*
The worst part is - you don’t WANT to disagree. Really, you don’t.
Not only is it unfair, its unnecessary. But what has been done, is done. The key is - HOW do you change your mindset?
After thinking a certain way for so long - how on earth do you initiate the kind of change that gives you a real handle on the direction your life is going?
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