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		<title>By: Jordyn</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/who-are-you-really-the-definition-and-redifinition-of-you/#comment-841</link>
		<dc:creator>Jordyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 22:43:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah! Love it! You're an amazing writer and so insightful!

Jordyns last blog post..&lt;a href="http://girljordyn.wordpress.com/2008/06/14/a-hundred-happies/" rel="nofollow"&gt;A Hundred Happies&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah! Love it! You&#8217;re an amazing writer and so insightful!</p>
<p>Jordyns last blog post..<a href="http://girljordyn.wordpress.com/2008/06/14/a-hundred-happies/" rel="nofollow">A Hundred Happies</a></p>
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		<title>By: JEMi</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/who-are-you-really-the-definition-and-redifinition-of-you/#comment-386</link>
		<dc:creator>JEMi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 06:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey everyone - sorry that I'm only now responding.. I was sans my pc for a bit but I'm glad to be back!

@ Cath:  yes, I think he is - despite some of the critiques I read about, I find that there is a lot of good and powerful information that he shares and that's what I choose to pay attention to 

@ Barbara:  I gave it some real thought and I haven't come up with anything yet!  But if I figure something that I can fit into the scope of this site then sure thing.  I do love challenges though :)

@ Rose:  Why thank you - I appreciate you stopping by!

@ new zealand tourism:  I know what you mean - the identity that you assume affects all aspecst of your life - relationships being a big one to appreciate the graces or take the hits of that identity.  Its more than knowing it affects you - although thats a major first step.  Its figuring out how you're goin to grab the reigns.. especially when someone really special comes around

@ Keith:  thanks!

@ tejvan:  I couldn't agree more!

@  Marsadie:  :)  I'm glad you liked it - thanks!

@ Haylejade:  I was deeply overwhelmed and appreciative of your comment.  For me, it hit many personal notes - particularly letting me know that the purpose.. the very existance of this site has served someone a message that she can use for the better.  

Thank you for the condolences ..
I am humbled by you and your husbands opinion.  I'm very sorry to learn about what happened and the suffering you've had to endure this entire time.  Isn't it crazy how just not knowing what's going on under the surface causes so much pain for so long?!  However, what a blessing - your surgery and the turn of events after the fact.  You - for sure - endured weathering on your identity.. your emotions, your health.  I'm excited about your new outlook on life and the promising road to recovery - both physical and emotional.  I'm glad you saw my little note when you needed to instead of immediately.  IMO, that was no coincedence.  

Your feedback is such positive reinforcement to me as a writer and as the woman who hopes to help somehow.  It is my deepest hope that InMyHeels will continue bringing messages that contribute to your overall wellness.  Know that you are one of those in mind when a something you need is posted and jumps out at you.  I plan to be in an instrument for hope as long as I can be.

(( hugs ))  thank you with all my heart Hayleyjade.  Get well, strong woman :)

-JEMi</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey everyone - sorry that I&#8217;m only now responding.. I was sans my pc for a bit but I&#8217;m glad to be back!</p>
<p>@ Cath:  yes, I think he is - despite some of the critiques I read about, I find that there is a lot of good and powerful information that he shares and that&#8217;s what I choose to pay attention to </p>
<p>@ Barbara:  I gave it some real thought and I haven&#8217;t come up with anything yet!  But if I figure something that I can fit into the scope of this site then sure thing.  I do love challenges though <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@ Rose:  Why thank you - I appreciate you stopping by!</p>
<p>@ new zealand tourism:  I know what you mean - the identity that you assume affects all aspecst of your life - relationships being a big one to appreciate the graces or take the hits of that identity.  Its more than knowing it affects you - although thats a major first step.  Its figuring out how you&#8217;re goin to grab the reigns.. especially when someone really special comes around</p>
<p>@ Keith:  thanks!</p>
<p>@ tejvan:  I couldn&#8217;t agree more!</p>
<p>@  Marsadie:  <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I&#8217;m glad you liked it - thanks!</p>
<p>@ Haylejade:  I was deeply overwhelmed and appreciative of your comment.  For me, it hit many personal notes - particularly letting me know that the purpose.. the very existance of this site has served someone a message that she can use for the better.  </p>
<p>Thank you for the condolences ..<br />
I am humbled by you and your husbands opinion.  I&#8217;m very sorry to learn about what happened and the suffering you&#8217;ve had to endure this entire time.  Isn&#8217;t it crazy how just not knowing what&#8217;s going on under the surface causes so much pain for so long?!  However, what a blessing - your surgery and the turn of events after the fact.  You - for sure - endured weathering on your identity.. your emotions, your health.  I&#8217;m excited about your new outlook on life and the promising road to recovery - both physical and emotional.  I&#8217;m glad you saw my little note when you needed to instead of immediately.  IMO, that was no coincedence.  </p>
<p>Your feedback is such positive reinforcement to me as a writer and as the woman who hopes to help somehow.  It is my deepest hope that InMyHeels will continue bringing messages that contribute to your overall wellness.  Know that you are one of those in mind when a something you need is posted and jumps out at you.  I plan to be in an instrument for hope as long as I can be.</p>
<p>(( hugs ))  thank you with all my heart Hayleyjade.  Get well, strong woman <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>-JEMi</p>
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		<title>By: Hayleyjade.</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/who-are-you-really-the-definition-and-redifinition-of-you/#comment-384</link>
		<dc:creator>Hayleyjade.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 05:11:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Jemi!!
My husband and I read the article together and together we were utterly amazed how wise beyond your years you really are. I personally would like to thank you for the Post, you have no idea what irony it was to have read this particular post.  I read a little about you Jemi, and I would like to say, I am truly sorry for your loss of your husband.  
I have been fighting my inner demons for some time.  I lost my brother five years ago and the pain is still as deep as that horrid day, losing a loved one truly tests your sanity.  In 2000 I had a car accident,  suffered extreme pain and had a lot of trouble proofing there was something wrong with me to the insurance company. A lot of doctors misdiagnosing me caused me to have a breakdown, and I gave up.  So for 7 years I suffered in silence and become housebound. Just recently I came out of hibernation asking for help. I found out I had torn hips and had to have hip arthroscopy. I suffer from neuropathy a condition which has caused my feet to burn and immense pain, burning in other parts of my body, gradually making me unable to walk. I have just had a spinal cord stimulator placed in my body to help with this condition. It is not a cure but it decreases my pain to a level where I can begin to try and live a normal life. 
Over the years I have lost my identity, being in constant pain physically, mentally this changed me. Was it just coincidence that having only received your message Jemi  a couple of days ago, “ will you check out my blog purty please?” from January the 4th? I believe this world is one strange place and I couldn’t begin to tell you how depressed I have been specially the last week and I suppose things happen for a reason. 
I have renewed enthusiasm with regards to where I am in my life and how I play a big role and where I can and will be over the coming years. Practically having lost my whole twenties in a hole with pain my only outlook.  With positive post operative results, even though I still have a long road ahead of me I now can see me taking control of my life. This blog reinforces me to work at building my character, within the blog I believe it has the tools to guide me on that road to personal fulfillment. Thank you for making me feel that all is not lost! 
Hayleyjade.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Jemi!!<br />
My husband and I read the article together and together we were utterly amazed how wise beyond your years you really are. I personally would like to thank you for the Post, you have no idea what irony it was to have read this particular post.  I read a little about you Jemi, and I would like to say, I am truly sorry for your loss of your husband.<br />
I have been fighting my inner demons for some time.  I lost my brother five years ago and the pain is still as deep as that horrid day, losing a loved one truly tests your sanity.  In 2000 I had a car accident,  suffered extreme pain and had a lot of trouble proofing there was something wrong with me to the insurance company. A lot of doctors misdiagnosing me caused me to have a breakdown, and I gave up.  So for 7 years I suffered in silence and become housebound. Just recently I came out of hibernation asking for help. I found out I had torn hips and had to have hip arthroscopy. I suffer from neuropathy a condition which has caused my feet to burn and immense pain, burning in other parts of my body, gradually making me unable to walk. I have just had a spinal cord stimulator placed in my body to help with this condition. It is not a cure but it decreases my pain to a level where I can begin to try and live a normal life.<br />
Over the years I have lost my identity, being in constant pain physically, mentally this changed me. Was it just coincidence that having only received your message Jemi  a couple of days ago, “ will you check out my blog purty please?” from January the 4th? I believe this world is one strange place and I couldn’t begin to tell you how depressed I have been specially the last week and I suppose things happen for a reason.<br />
I have renewed enthusiasm with regards to where I am in my life and how I play a big role and where I can and will be over the coming years. Practically having lost my whole twenties in a hole with pain my only outlook.  With positive post operative results, even though I still have a long road ahead of me I now can see me taking control of my life. This blog reinforces me to work at building my character, within the blog I believe it has the tools to guide me on that road to personal fulfillment. Thank you for making me feel that all is not lost!<br />
Hayleyjade.</p>
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		<title>By: Marsadie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marsadie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 23:01:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, great article! This was really thoughtful and inspirational...

&lt;em&gt;Marsadie's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://frappelattes.com/reader-poll-online-shopping/' rel="nofollow"&gt;Reader Poll: Online Shopping&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, great article! This was really thoughtful and inspirational&#8230;</p>
<p><em>Marsadie&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://frappelattes.com/reader-poll-online-shopping/' rel="nofollow">Reader Poll: Online Shopping</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Tejvan Pettinger</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/who-are-you-really-the-definition-and-redifinition-of-you/#comment-372</link>
		<dc:creator>Tejvan Pettinger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 15:18:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post. I think the way we view ourselves is important for either creating self imposed limits or to free ourselves to transcend and achieve our heart's desire

&lt;em&gt;Tejvan Pettinger's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://www.srichinmoybio.co.uk/blog/self-improvement/173/' rel="nofollow"&gt;Some 30-day self-improvement ideas&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. I think the way we view ourselves is important for either creating self imposed limits or to free ourselves to transcend and achieve our heart&#8217;s desire</p>
<p><em>Tejvan Pettinger&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.srichinmoybio.co.uk/blog/self-improvement/173/' rel="nofollow">Some 30-day self-improvement ideas</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Keith Johnson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keith Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 13:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very nice article....thanks for sharing! Regards, Keith Johnson, Author, 365 Great Affirmations</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very nice article&#8230;.thanks for sharing! Regards, Keith Johnson, Author, 365 Great Affirmations</p>
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		<title>By: new zealand tourism</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/who-are-you-really-the-definition-and-redifinition-of-you/#comment-367</link>
		<dc:creator>new zealand tourism</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 13:21:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know that for myself how I identify myself is so ingrained that despite the fact I know sometimes it holds me back, I just cannot seem to let that definition go. A prime example is I have always been defined as the independent tough one. I do not want to let this go for some reason, and I end up letting it affect my relationships.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know that for myself how I identify myself is so ingrained that despite the fact I know sometimes it holds me back, I just cannot seem to let that definition go. A prime example is I have always been defined as the independent tough one. I do not want to let this go for some reason, and I end up letting it affect my relationships.</p>
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		<title>By: rose</title>
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		<dc:creator>rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 16:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello there
thanks for stopping by. :)

All your pictures are cool.. theres some emotions i cant explain.. 

takecare

&lt;em&gt;rose's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://revolutionmotion.com/?p=789' rel="nofollow"&gt;hala.. papaya!!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello there<br />
thanks for stopping by. <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
All your pictures are cool.. theres some emotions i cant explain.. </p>
<p>takecare</p>
<p><em>rose&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://revolutionmotion.com/?p=789' rel="nofollow">hala.. papaya!!</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Barbara Swafford</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Swafford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 06:32:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi JEMi,

I'll be looking forward to that post.  Link love is great, but more than anything, I want to read your spin on it.  And, as always, I'm sure you will find the most appropriate pictures.  You always do.

&lt;em&gt;Barbara Swafford's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/258108636/' rel="nofollow"&gt;Join Me In Helping A Fellow Blogger&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi JEMi,</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be looking forward to that post.  Link love is great, but more than anything, I want to read your spin on it.  And, as always, I&#8217;m sure you will find the most appropriate pictures.  You always do.</p>
<p><em>Barbara Swafford&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/bloggingwithoutablog/DWWZ/~3/258108636/' rel="nofollow">Join Me In Helping A Fellow Blogger</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Cath Lawson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cath Lawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 05:46:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi JEMi - I love this post.  Isn't Anthony Robbins amazing?  I really like your idea of creating a personal mission statement and I'm going to be trying it out.

&lt;em&gt;Cath Lawson's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SuccessPasscode/~3/257742008/' rel="nofollow"&gt;Cashflow Problems:  Idiot Proof Your Business&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi JEMi - I love this post.  Isn&#8217;t Anthony Robbins amazing?  I really like your idea of creating a personal mission statement and I&#8217;m going to be trying it out.</p>
<p><em>Cath Lawson&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SuccessPasscode/~3/257742008/' rel="nofollow">Cashflow Problems:  Idiot Proof Your Business</a></em></p>
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