Comments on: When Your Husband Dies http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/ Tips for Life, Love, You. Thu, 24 Jul 2008 16:14:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Guldem http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-845 Guldem Mon, 16 Jun 2008 13:16:35 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-845 I'm grateful that you wrote such an article about a reality like this! I am also a military widow but from another country and It's been just 42 days since I've lost him. There has been no other person that touched my innermost feelings as you did and this is no surprise I suppose. I'm also a young widow too, not as young as you are, but still. I'm 31 and so was he. We have been together for 3 years and were married for 3 months when he passed away. I've changed a lot in 42 days. Thought about everything you mentioned. But reading this article made me feel that I'm not the only one who is suffering a loss like that. It's amazing how you gained power from his love and I'm hoping the same for myself. It doesn't really feel as if I lost him, but rather he changed form or dimension. But his energy is still there and even inside me. I want to send you a hug back and thank you for sharing your grief with us. I’m grateful that you wrote such an article about a reality like this! I am also a military widow but from another country and It’s been just 42 days since I’ve lost him. There has been no other person that touched my innermost feelings as you did and this is no surprise I suppose.

I’m also a young widow too, not as young as you are, but still. I’m 31 and so was he. We have been together for 3 years and were married for 3 months when he passed away. I’ve changed a lot in 42 days. Thought about everything you mentioned. But reading this article made me feel that I’m not the only one who is suffering a loss like that.

It’s amazing how you gained power from his love and I’m hoping the same for myself. It doesn’t really feel as if I lost him, but rather he changed form or dimension. But his energy is still there and even inside me.

I want to send you a hug back and thank you for sharing your grief with us.

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]]> By: Anonymous http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-713 Anonymous Tue, 13 May 2008 19:07:07 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-713 What a heartfelt writing. I am so sorry for your loss. You have courage and determination. I too, am I recent widow, and can relate to all your thoughts and emotions. I will never understand it, but must accept it as God's will of taking care of my husband in His own way. I miss my husband so much... Anonymous What a heartfelt writing. I am so sorry for your loss. You have courage and determination.
I too, am I recent widow, and can relate to all your thoughts and emotions.
I will never understand it, but must accept it as God’s will of taking care of my husband in His own way.
I miss my husband so much…
Anonymous

]]> By: Tess http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-699 Tess Sun, 11 May 2008 16:18:11 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-699 Wow. I'm sitting here reading this with tears streaming down my face. Thank you. You really do understand. That's invaluable, you know? Thank you :) Wow. I’m sitting here reading this with tears streaming down my face.

Thank you.

You really do understand. That’s invaluable, you know?

Thank you :)

]]> By: JEMi http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-598 JEMi Fri, 02 May 2008 07:30:40 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-598 @ Pat: The pain is very much alive and very real in my life today so I thank you for your kind words that come like a warm hug to me. I take your condolences to heart - so thank you @ Tina: I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am sorry for your mom's pain and am really happy that you found this post helpful. It is my sincerest hope she finds it helpful to, when she's ready to read it. God bless you both. -JEMi @ Pat: The pain is very much alive and very real in my life today so I thank you for your kind words that come like a warm hug to me. I take your condolences to heart - so thank you

@ Tina: I am deeply sorry for your loss. I am sorry for your mom’s pain and am really happy that you found this post helpful. It is my sincerest hope she finds it helpful to, when she’s ready to read it.

God bless you both.

-JEMi

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-596 Anonymous Fri, 02 May 2008 03:31:13 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-596 Jemi, I just lost my Dad today and I was searching for information on how to comfort my mom. They were married for 56 years. I came across your blog and it was very helpful and touching. Thank you and God bless. Tina Jemi, I just lost my Dad today and I was searching for information on how to comfort my mom. They were married for 56 years. I came across your blog and it was very helpful and touching. Thank you and God bless.

Tina

]]> By: Pat R http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-593 Pat R Thu, 01 May 2008 04:19:57 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-593 JEMi - I'm coming in late but want to send you peace and loving thoughts that hopefully will help ease the pain you and many of your commenters are going through. Somehow in the midst of our sorrow and heaviness we catch a glimpse of a world unknown through the passing of those dear to us. I pray in those times, when you feel you've been turned inside out and you've cried so hard the tears don't come anymore, and the smells and small reminders of him or her remain fresh in your memory, that the angels will surround you and the very presence of God will be there to wrap His arms around you until you're okay to carry on again, at least for the moment. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. God Bless <em>Pat R's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/PlainTalkAndOrdinaryWisdom/~3/280483325/irish-blessing.html' rel="nofollow">Irish Blessing</a></em> JEMi - I’m coming in late but want to send you peace and loving thoughts that hopefully will help ease the pain you and many of your commenters are going through.

Somehow in the midst of our sorrow and heaviness we catch a glimpse of a world unknown through the passing of those dear to us.

I pray in those times, when you feel you’ve been turned inside out and you’ve cried so hard the tears don’t come anymore, and the smells and small reminders of him or her remain fresh in your memory, that the angels will surround you and the very presence of God will be there to wrap His arms around you until you’re okay to carry on again, at least for the moment.

Thank you for sharing your heart with us.

God Bless

Pat R’s last blog post..Irish Blessing

]]> By: JEMi http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-473 JEMi Fri, 18 Apr 2008 01:17:39 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-473 @ Elly: (( hugs back )) thanks.. @ anonymous: ...and I welcome your honesty and thank you for sharing your pain. I'm terribly sorry for your loss.. I know what it is to become used to having your confidante, your lover, your best friend all wrapped up in the man that is your husband and to lose him.. the emptiness can be unbearable at times and yes.. it is a very lonely walk so I appreciate you relating - from the bottom of my heart ((hugs)) @ Elly: (( hugs back )) thanks..

@ anonymous: …and I welcome your honesty and thank you for sharing your pain. I’m terribly sorry for your loss.. I know what it is to become used to having your confidante, your lover, your best friend all wrapped up in the man that is your husband and to lose him..
the emptiness can be unbearable at times
and yes.. it is a very lonely walk
so I appreciate you relating - from the bottom of my heart
((hugs))

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-472 Anonymous Fri, 18 Apr 2008 00:17:02 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-472 JEMi, I am at 2yrs,4mos now and some days I still feel like it was yesterday. My husband of 35 years died very suddenly at home in our bed, two weeks before Christmas. Nothing in my life is the same. I think about him all the time. Every decision I make, I think of him. We were a team when it came to anything in our life and now I still want his input. He was not only the love of my life,but he was my best friend.I feel that loneliness that you spoke of and just dream of talking to him at night in bed. We were just so close and there is no way to fill the emptiness that I feel with him gone. Your post is inspiring and I am walking in your heels.I am sorry for your pain,I know how you feel. I send love from a sister in the lonely walk. God will hold us in the palm of His hand. JEMi,
I am at 2yrs,4mos now and some days I still feel like it was yesterday. My husband of 35 years died very suddenly at home in our bed, two weeks before Christmas. Nothing in my life is the same. I think about him all the time. Every decision I make, I think of him. We were a team when it came to anything in our life and now I still want his input. He was not only the love of my life,but he was my best friend.I feel that loneliness that you spoke of and just dream of talking to him at night in bed. We were just so close and there is no way to fill the emptiness that I feel with him gone.
Your post is inspiring and I am walking in your heels.I am sorry for your pain,I know how you feel. I send love from a sister in the lonely walk. God will hold us in the palm of His hand.

]]> By: Elly http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-452 Elly Thu, 10 Apr 2008 08:25:16 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/when-your-husband-dies/#comment-452 hugs I am very sorry for all the pain you have been tru. This post is very helping and useful for people who have experienced loss, no matter at which age. Thank you for what you do to make other feel a bit better. hugs
I am very sorry for all the pain you have been tru.
This post is very helping and useful for people who have experienced loss, no matter at which age.
Thank you for what you do to make other feel a bit better.

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