Comments on: Uninhibited: 10 Ways to Set Yourself Free (Part 2) http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/ Tips for Life, Love, You. Thu, 24 Jul 2008 16:19:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Jackal http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-375 Jackal Sat, 29 Mar 2008 13:01:27 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-375 Wonderful and timely post!!! "someone’s disapproval can wreak havoc on your self esteem" - so very true. Wonderful and timely post!!!

“someone’s disapproval can wreak havoc on your self esteem” - so very true.

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]]> By: JEMi http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-271 JEMi Wed, 12 Mar 2008 13:45:18 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-271 @ Becca: You're quite welcome! :) @ Faboo Mama: I am quite honored thank you! Yeah, its hard to not care what others think. It's so liberating when you finally reach that point in your life. For some people, it takes maturity, others - some radical incident. Who knows? I find that some people will say you think you are better than they are because you are assured within yourself, your opinions, your thoughts. Since you can't please everyone, make sure you please the one person who counts. Yourself. Thanks for stopping by - it was really great to see you here :) @ Cath Lawson: A good friend of mind enlightened me with that tip - It's not you it's them. It's so easy to make things your own fault.. even when it isn't. I know I certainly shouldered the blame for everything someone would do to hurt me .. maybe because deep down I felt if it was my fault, I could fix it. If it was their fault, I can't count on them wanting to fix it for me. It takes work to break out of that mindset and yes, watching your company will do wonders. I think its great you cut off rude people's access to your self esteem. Bravo! @ Becca: You’re quite welcome! :)
@ Faboo Mama: I am quite honored thank you! Yeah, its hard to not care what others think. It’s so liberating when you finally reach that point in your life. For some people, it takes maturity, others - some radical incident. Who knows? I find that some people will say you think you are better than they are because you are assured within yourself, your opinions, your thoughts. Since you can’t please everyone, make sure you please the one person who counts. Yourself. Thanks for stopping by - it was really great to see you here :)
@ Cath Lawson: A good friend of mind enlightened me with that tip - It’s not you it’s them. It’s so easy to make things your own fault.. even when it isn’t. I know I certainly shouldered the blame for everything someone would do to hurt me .. maybe because deep down I felt if it was my fault, I could fix it. If it was their fault, I can’t count on them wanting to fix it for me. It takes work to break out of that mindset and yes, watching your company will do wonders. I think its great you cut off rude people’s access to your self esteem. Bravo!

]]> By: Cath Lawson http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-265 Cath Lawson Tue, 11 Mar 2008 19:12:51 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-265 This is a brilliant and inspiring post JEMi. I know that when I was younger, if anyone was rude to me - I thought it was my fault. And if anyone put me down - they had to be right. I was probably a sitting target for obnoxious people - I'm sure they can smell folks who lack confidence 10 miles away. Then I started to watch those people interact with others. And I began to realise it wasn't me who had a problem - it was them. Nowadays - those are the people I avoid like the plague and I would never let a rude person make me feel bad about myself ever again. <em>Cath Lawson's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/SuccessPasscode/~3/249613857/' rel="nofollow">6 Ways To Make More Money With Less Time</a></em> This is a brilliant and inspiring post JEMi. I know that when I was younger, if anyone was rude to me - I thought it was my fault. And if anyone put me down - they had to be right. I was probably a sitting target for obnoxious people - I’m sure they can smell folks who lack confidence 10 miles away.

Then I started to watch those people interact with others. And I began to realise it wasn’t me who had a problem - it was them. Nowadays - those are the people I avoid like the plague and I would never let a rude person make me feel bad about myself ever again.

Cath Lawson’s last blog post..6 Ways To Make More Money With Less Time

]]> By: faboo mama http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-263 faboo mama Tue, 11 Mar 2008 17:33:35 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-263 This series and your entire blog is why I gave you the <a href="http://faboomama.com/2008/03/09/ive-gotta-a-badge-and-i-aint-afraid-to-use-it/#comment-2031" rel="nofollow">You Make My Day Award</a>. These two posts are the values I was raised with. I've been trying to tell my husband for years that he shouldn't worry about other people. I've been trying to raise my daughter the same way. Too much emphasis is placed on what others think, restricting too many people. I've found that people who dislike me always say the same thing, that I think I'm better than them. It's not true. I think I can be better, so I push myself. I'm not going to let naysayers and doubters get me down. Great advice you have here. <em>faboo mama's last blog post..<a href='http://faboomama.com/2008/03/11/election-08-obama-campaign-challenges-clitnons-claims/' rel="nofollow">ELECTION ?08: Obama campaign challenges Clinton's claims</a></em> This series and your entire blog is why I gave you the You Make My Day Award.

These two posts are the values I was raised with. I’ve been trying to tell my husband for years that he shouldn’t worry about other people. I’ve been trying to raise my daughter the same way. Too much emphasis is placed on what others think, restricting too many people. I’ve found that people who dislike me always say the same thing, that I think I’m better than them. It’s not true. I think I can be better, so I push myself. I’m not going to let naysayers and doubters get me down. Great advice you have here.

faboo mama’s last blog post..ELECTION ?08: Obama campaign challenges Clinton’s claims

]]> By: becca http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-256 becca Sat, 08 Mar 2008 19:29:56 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-256 Hey JEMi! Thanks for checking out my blog. I must say, you've got a lot of great posts here! I feel like if I'm ever feeling down I should just come here and click on the many articles telling me to love myself lol. Really good advice here, I'll be back! <em>becca's last blog post..<a href='http://4am-insomniac.com/blog/?p=75' rel="nofollow">Rock the Vote!</a></em> Hey JEMi! Thanks for checking out my blog.

I must say, you’ve got a lot of great posts here! I feel like if I’m ever feeling down I should just come here and click on the many articles telling me to love myself lol. Really good advice here, I’ll be back!

becca’s last blog post..Rock the Vote!

]]> By: JEMi http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-255 JEMi Sat, 08 Mar 2008 03:31:44 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-255 @ Barbara: I thought "start off a list of what you don't want" was something everyone could do because even when you are not sure what it is you're looking for - you can always call out a big no-no. It's one of my favorites too :) Thank you for your readership- you need to know how much I appreciate your comments :) @ Kevin: Hello you :) Yeah other people's biases can wreak some havoc in your own path. You may not realize it but how many times do you do a triple take or change your mind because of other people's opinions.. or the fact that you may feel you have to do things in "spite of" their thoughts .. bc they matter that much? It's good to see you here blogging buddy - thanks for your input @ Lucky Charm: Hey :) thanks! @ Alleged Ringleader: Thank you Ringleader! @ Barbara: I thought “start off a list of what you don’t want” was something everyone could do because even when you are not sure what it is you’re looking for - you can always call out a big no-no. It’s one of my favorites too :) Thank you for your readership- you need to know how much I appreciate your comments :)

@ Kevin: Hello you :) Yeah other people’s biases can wreak some havoc in your own path. You may not realize it but how many times do you do a triple take or change your mind because of other people’s opinions.. or the fact that you may feel you have to do things in “spite of” their thoughts .. bc they matter that much?

It’s good to see you here blogging buddy - thanks for your input

@ Lucky Charm: Hey :) thanks!

@ Alleged Ringleader: Thank you Ringleader!

]]> By: The Alleged Ringleader http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-254 The Alleged Ringleader Sat, 08 Mar 2008 00:19:12 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-254 You have such great things to say! <em>The Alleged Ringleader's last blog post..<a href='http://thegloriouslifeof.blogspot.com/2008/03/mean-girls-guide-to-celebrity-sex-tape.html' rel="nofollow">The Mean Girls' Guide to the Celebrity Sex Tape</a></em> You have such great things to say!

The Alleged Ringleader’s last blog post..The Mean Girls’ Guide to the Celebrity Sex Tape

]]> By: LuckyCharm http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-252 LuckyCharm Thu, 06 Mar 2008 20:01:10 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-252 Good job JeMi! Good job JeMi!

]]> By: Kevin http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-251 Kevin Thu, 06 Mar 2008 16:23:10 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/uninhibited-10-ways-to-set-yourself-free-part-2/#comment-251 Another great post with some very punctual statements to get your readers to think. You bring up some excellent points in this section as well. don't let other people's biases control you, free yourself by accepting yourself and be grateful for everything, even your mistakes in the past, as they can create a bigger, better, stronger you for today and tomorrow. <em>Kevin's last blog post..<a href='http://kevinnumerick.com/blog/?p=126' rel="nofollow">Yay for goodies!</a></em> Another great post with some very punctual statements to get your readers to think. You bring up some excellent points in this section as well. don’t let other people’s biases control you, free yourself by accepting yourself and be grateful for everything, even your mistakes in the past, as they can create a bigger, better, stronger you for today and tomorrow.

Kevin’s last blog post..Yay for goodies!

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