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17AprWhat the Super Successful You Knows

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How long have you been this uncomfortable? 

With certain aspects of your life that is. 

Are you constantly poring over someone else’s get things done system - only to find the only thing you’re doing is frustrating yourself yet again?  It doesn’t even make any sense.  It works for some people - why not you?

How about your job?  Are you supposed to like it because you spent a good lot of your time for the past __ years learning for a shot at your dream only to find that it just isn’t flowing as well as you pictured?

Is it you?

Quite frankly yes. 

It’s you…not being you.  And that can be a problem.

For those on a serious quest for the inspired career move, having issues with learning, not understanding the relationship advice you’re getting (and therefore you MUST be an ogre) ignoring your natural tendencies will leave you feeling awkward.  You can technically force yourself to operate under someone else system but that’s the underlying discomfort you feel…

..and it’s probably feeding that growing monster of resentment that you’re carrying on your bare back.

You’d be amazed at what knowing and respecting your own personal style of operation can do for you.  You’d be super productive and a lot happier with your circumstances. 

And to think that people go on, for YEARS, oblivious to this fact and suffering a faceless unhappiness because of it!  Looks like there’s more to that “Be Yourself” thing huh. 

This is the part where I tell you that you can shell out fifty bucks or so over here at Kolbe.com to find out about yourself for your best life.

OR

You can thank your bloggy stars that JEMi knows JUST how you feel and is about to discuss the general guideline that test shows you.

*smile*

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19JanStress Management for the Woman Who Wants It All

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I am writing this to the woman who wants it all.  I am all about wanting it all.  I dream big, I aim (really) high, I think whoever thinks I have delusions of grandeur apparently doesn’t know me well enough, and I sip from a glass that’s half-full. 

It’s wonderful, really. 

What ISN’T wonderful is the insane amount of stress that can come from having to multi-task and drudge through a way too busy day.  Stress is like quicksand right at the very center of your dreams.  You add to, tweak, or create new dreams and goals and while you are trying to move forward with all of your plans, the quicksand sucks you and your strength away as you try to forge on!  The less strength you have, the less you are able to manage.   Regardless of what success is for you, effort and energy is required to make the engine of your dreamboat purr.  If you want to be  super-mom, a straight-A student, a star at work, handy-sans-the-man,  or (eek) everything at once–

You’re going to need a system. 
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11Dec6 Tips on Scoring A Better Day

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…because we all can use a little pep in our step after falling into the monotony of daily living.  (am I right or am I right?)

I’ve gathered a couple of tips that I believe will increase the quality of your day.  Of course these are tried and true by yours truly but hey, feel free to try these out.  After all, the only thing you have to lose is a scowl.  :)   

Sleep Better the Night Before

No, it isn’t overrated.  In fact, it’s underrated.  We shave significant pieces off of our Zzz’s and wonder why it is we feel a secret urge to run people over in the morning.  (At least, as a New Yorker, I get that).  Not only does sleep do wonders for your look in the AM, it provides the rest you need in order to function efficiently the next day.  No matter what breed of superhero you are, without real rest, you won’t be able to focus as well as you could have.  Pay a little attention to what’s going on at night.  If you’re having trouble sleeping, investigate the causes behind it.  Distractions, stress, underlying health causes, silly boyfriend can’t stop with the 3 AM calls (I’m only sorta kidding) - try to find the culprit and work on making the necessary changes.  You’d be amazed what a little bit of real sleep can do for you.  

Decide To Have a Good Day

Yes, literally decide to have a good one.  Arming yourself with a can-do attitude enables you to see things that come up during the day as challenges, not as fate’s personal vendetta against you.  The power of positive thinking ought not be underestimated. 


You can end up feeling good that you found a solution for the obstacle that you were faced with OR you can just be super pissed that there was an obstacle to begin with.  What good does that contribute to your own personal mood?  You want to add good vibes, not take away.    

Give Yourself the Time You Need

Not every day you start will begin on the note you wished it did.  Sometimes, that note will definitely be off key.  On days like this, acknowledge the fact that you’re a little off, distracted, upset about something.  And with that acknowledgment comes giving yourself the time you need to complete certain tasks without beating yourself up for the mishaps.  Boss be damned (ok, not really, but lets keep going with the flow shall we?), try to get through it the best you can without contributing to angst.  Of course, you have responsibilities.  But if you don’t take care of you, you just may crash and burn and create an even bigger mess.  So if it means operating on 70% efficiency for a little bit, so be it.  No one will be none the wiser and it just may be what you need to feel better and get back into the full swing of things.   

Prioritize

You want a super quick way to send the smile you exchanged with that cute guy in the coffee shop down the drain?  Go into a heap load of things you have to do without taking a minute to figure out what must be done versus, well, everything else.  Sometimes, this is simply a matter of collecting your thoughts and jotting them done or maybe clearing your desk.  Regardless of what it is, identify what needs to be done and when.  That way, you can minimize the not-so-welcome surprises to the best of your ability.  Who need’s that kind of pressure anyway?  

DON’T Skip Me Time

Regardless of what you do for a living, Me Time is so crucial I would be doing you a great disservice if I were to skip it.  Me Time could be a quiet 30 minutes you steal from your morning or evening.  It can be the time you clock out from the world to gather your thoughts and focus on what makes you feel good.  Meditation, prayer, whatever it is you do - that Me Time is your time and you need it.  Starting a day with it can really help you center yourself and give you that positive frame of mind that’ll get you through the day.  Ending a day with it can really help you unwind, increase the quality in your sleep by loosening you up and letting the day-time drama fall to the way side.  Do what you enjoy.  Do what you need to for you.  But don’t you skip that Me Time.   

Give Yourself a Pat on the Back

A small personal victory just take place?  You like the way your hair looks today?  That piece of chocolate was just that good?  Give yourself the kudos.  This all contributes to a more pleasant flow in your thoughts which I’m sure are full of all that OTHER stuff anyway.  A better self esteem definitely does something for your day.  It doesn’t have to be a big deal to anyone but you.  But you know, be a little careful with the smug smile.  You don’t want anyone thinking you stole the cookie from the cookie jar. It’s definitely possible to have a good day just because you want one.  It’s also possible to make a day that isn’t so great not as bad as it could be.  These suggestions are tried and true.  Anyone have any more ideas?  I’m all ears :)                                                                                                                                     


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