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04AugLife Coach: How to Overcome Being Overwhelmed

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This particular post was a long time coming and its directly coincides with what I’ve been feeling as of late. I thought it would be a great to share with you one of my biggest struggles and in the event that you feel anything similar, I’d also love to share with you the wisdom that Tim has shared with me.

Somehow, I’ve cornered myself into feeling so overwhelmed that I began to stop - nearly everything. You’ve heard of the paralysis of analysis, have you not? You know, when you analyze SO much that you become afraid to move for whatever reason? Enter me, a twenty-something gal with lots of somethings on her mind. There are so many things that I wanted to take charge of and knowing that it’s a frame of mind, I decided to tackle it all. Except I didn’t know where to start. I could see the very big picture - think Google Earth of my dream world - however I couldn’t focus.

Then, the sad state of the What Ifs grew to what felt like astronomical heights. I couldn’t even bring myself to write. How frustrating - particularly because I have always found writing to be such a release!

Lucky for me, a caring Life Coach listened intently to my crisis and helped bring me back to Earth. And what’s the good of dishing advice if one can’t take a dose for herself? Turns out that no matter how many self improvement books you dedicate yourself to reading, the profound change that you seek in those books all start by taking one step at a time. Know that I am one of those who will nod “Yeah, yeah but what’s the REAL secret” to such age-old advice until I have my epiphany :) It DOES all start with one step and they are each quite significant; even when you think they are too small to matter.

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15MarWaiting to Live

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Perhaps you’re at a point in your life where things aren’t swell but aren’t horrible either.  A middle plane, with your daily comings and goings steady like a mill and well, not so exciting.The exciting stuff is coming.  You know - when you make that deal, when you finish school, when you lose 50 lbs…when you find the right man..

And so you wait.

And wait.

You’ll be happy one day - it just has to happen.

So you wait some more.

And what you aren’t realizing is while you’re waiting for that good thing to happen so that you can start your fabulous new life, the life you have is passing by.  Days you can’t reclaim and that were loaded with the potential to make you feel good about being alive.

Maybe you’ll be super lucky and that day comes quickly for you.  So you’d be exempt of wasting your days, skipping in glee.

Those odds are there for the taking so yeah - maybe you’ll be lucky - so you’ll wait.

Would you bet your life on those odds?

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