Comments on: Survival of a Broken Heart: A How-To Guide http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/ Tips for Life, Love, You. Thu, 24 Jul 2008 16:12:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Snow White http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-807 Snow White Fri, 06 Jun 2008 03:20:08 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-807 Oh isn't having a broken heart an awful thing to go through ... ugh. Maria in "The Sound of Music" said to Lisel to "wait a year, or two" Ugh, its hard. Especially when you love every darling little thing about him and know he loves every dear thing about you too. And faith is so important, there are messages from God in your article that are so appreciated and needed at this time. Trust is so important too. Truly, what I read from you tonight will stay with me for a long long time. Healing is from God, I'm so glad I read your notes tonight. Hugs for you too, my heart feels good tonight. Good night and God bless. Oh isn’t having a broken heart an awful thing to go through … ugh.
Maria in “The Sound of Music” said to Lisel to “wait a year, or two”
Ugh, its hard. Especially when you love every darling little thing about him and know he loves every dear thing about you too.
And faith is so important, there are messages from God in your article that are so appreciated and needed at this time. Trust is so important too.
Truly, what I read from you tonight will stay with me for a long long time.
Healing is from God, I’m so glad I read your notes tonight.
Hugs for you too, my heart feels good tonight.
Good night and God bless.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-725 Anonymous Sun, 18 May 2008 16:31:27 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-725 my botfirend graduated from high school and now is moving far away while i have another year left of school and i may never see him agian and it breaks my heart that his my first love and now he is just walking away without even saying goodbye and now that i have read this page i may actualy think i may be able to fine love agian thank you so much god bless Ashley my botfirend graduated from high school and now is moving far away while i have another year left of school and i may never see him agian and it breaks my heart that his my first love and now he is just walking away without even saying goodbye and now that i have read this page i may actualy think i may be able to fine love agian

thank you so much
god bless
Ashley

]]> By: Ralph http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-499 Ralph Sun, 20 Apr 2008 09:55:21 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-499 Thank you for this great deep article. There are much help to understand the new situation after a parting and to get her/ him own new way through own life with all the new possibilities. I can not change my ex-girlfriend whit all her good and bad characteristics, but i can change my own opion about my own life. The earth will rotate, with or without me, the earth will not ask me ;) Thank you for this great deep article. There are much help to understand the new situation after a parting and to get her/ him own new way through own life with all the new possibilities.

I can not change my ex-girlfriend whit all her good and bad characteristics, but i can change my own opion about my own life.

The earth will rotate, with or without me, the earth will not ask me ;)

]]> By: Heimdall http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-468 Heimdall Sat, 12 Apr 2008 17:18:30 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-468 Wow, JEMi. What an amazing article you have composed! I felt as though you were speaking straight to my heart. Four months ago, my girlfriend suddenly broke up with me after five amazing years. Even up to this day she could not give me a reason, so the "Why?" is still an open question for both of us. This makes things really much more difficult. Thus I hope we can answer it some day. Ever since, so much has changed in my life that it feels already like a couple of years. Your advice goes hand in hand with many roads I have trod, and describes many hurdles I have encountered. Sometimes I overcame them right away, often with a lot of trial and error. Some are still awaiting me. It seems as though the most painful experiences are also the most valuable ones. I keep going day by day, eager to learn and grow, and there is still so much ahead. The way you write about this really touches my heart. Some of your words shine just like brilliant gems reflecting the sunlight: "If you depend on someone else to make you feel worthwhile, you will always be disappointed because even angels have their days of rest." ... so true! Thank you for this wonderful and empathetic article (and all others)! :-) <em>Heimdall's last blog post..<a href='http://blog.wolfganglukas.com/2008/02/21/hold-fast-your-dreams/' rel="nofollow">Hold Fast Your Dreams!</a></em> Wow, JEMi. What an amazing article you have composed! I felt as though you were speaking straight to my heart.

Four months ago, my girlfriend suddenly broke up with me after five amazing years. Even up to this day she could not give me a reason, so the “Why?” is still an open question for both of us. This makes things really much more difficult. Thus I hope we can answer it some day.

Ever since, so much has changed in my life that it feels already like a couple of years. Your advice goes hand in hand with many roads I have trod, and describes many hurdles I have encountered. Sometimes I overcame them right away, often with a lot of trial and error. Some are still awaiting me.

It seems as though the most painful experiences are also the most valuable ones. I keep going day by day, eager to learn and grow, and there is still so much ahead. The way you write about this really touches my heart. Some of your words shine just like brilliant gems reflecting the sunlight: “If you depend on someone else to make you feel worthwhile, you will always be disappointed because even angels have their days of rest.” … so true!

Thank you for this wonderful and empathetic article (and all others)! :-)
Heimdall’s last blog post..Hold Fast Your Dreams!

]]> By: mp http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-457 mp Thu, 10 Apr 2008 17:18:03 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-457 This is a truly beautiful and meaningful post. I don't have much to add because I think you have said almost all that needs to be said about this topic, but I hope others who are struggling with these issues will find this post. I think some people who haven't ever had a broken heart underestimate what it feels like - when it's bad, it really does feel like a survival situation! This is a truly beautiful and meaningful post. I don’t have much to add because I think you have said almost all that needs to be said about this topic, but I hope others who are struggling with these issues will find this post. I think some people who haven’t ever had a broken heart underestimate what it feels like - when it’s bad, it really does feel like a survival situation!

]]> By: JEMi http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-454 JEMi Thu, 10 Apr 2008 08:58:59 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-454 @ Tom: How awesome of you to stop by! Oh yes, I'm familiar with drag-you-through-the-mud heartbreak.. Spiritual work does wonders for the task of "getting over it" which feels virtually impossible when you're in those heels.. I mean shoes :-D I think its beautiful that you still have so much love for her while moving on with your life. You're living proof that it can happen! Thank you for your comment Tom! @ Kelly: Always a pleasure! The Why question is damning and has an iron grip hold for as long as you'll allow it. I agree - your step sis' words are beautiful and true. Now you've got a man who is full of love and just right for you. Now THAT is beautiful! @ Alex: LOL thank you! I'm brainstorming the possibilities and learning how it is I put together and properly distribute it to the masses. I'll take those props and give them to you too blogging buddy - thanks for the words of encouragement. It means alot! @ Apricot: Man I did dig deep to write this and it brought many memories back for me too! LOL thanks - duly noted! (and girl please, you won't have to stand in line!) @ Natural: From your words alone I feel it... whoever he is that has mattered so much. This calls for a deep soulful "hmm" because I know just how you feel. And you must know that it really makes my day to know that I hit the nail on the head for you. Thanks for stopping by Natural (( hugs )) @ Shamelle: Yes the why questions. Can't shake 'em if you tried. Not at first anyway. I'm glad you liked it :) thanks! @ Tom: How awesome of you to stop by!
Oh yes, I’m familiar with drag-you-through-the-mud heartbreak..
Spiritual work does wonders for the task of “getting over it” which feels virtually impossible when you’re in those heels.. I mean shoes :-D
I think its beautiful that you still have so much love for her while moving on with your life. You’re living proof that it can happen! Thank you for your comment Tom!

@ Kelly: Always a pleasure! The Why question is damning and has an iron grip hold for as long as you’ll allow it. I agree - your step sis’ words are beautiful and true. Now you’ve got a man who is full of love and just right for you. Now THAT is beautiful!

@ Alex: LOL thank you! I’m brainstorming the possibilities and learning how it is I put together and properly distribute it to the masses. I’ll take those props and give them to you too blogging buddy - thanks for the words of encouragement. It means alot!

@ Apricot: Man I did dig deep to write this and it brought many memories back for me too! LOL thanks - duly noted! (and girl please, you won’t have to stand in line!)

@ Natural: From your words alone I feel it… whoever he is that has mattered so much. This calls for a deep soulful “hmm” because I know just how you feel. And you must know that it really makes my day to know that I hit the nail on the head for you. Thanks for stopping by Natural (( hugs ))

@ Shamelle: Yes the why questions. Can’t shake ‘em if you tried. Not at first anyway. I’m glad you liked it :) thanks!

]]> By: Shamelle @ Enhance Life http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-453 Shamelle @ Enhance Life Thu, 10 Apr 2008 08:35:39 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-453 Why do we find it so hard to release when a relationship ends? :-) yes.. the why questions... We get emotionally attached when we fall in love. Emotional attachment is wonderful when the relationship is in full bloom, but a great source of pain when the romance is over. Great post. <em>Shamelle @ Enhance Life's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/EnhanceLife/~3/265556748/6-investment-misconceptions-that-stop.html' rel="nofollow">6 Investment Misconceptions That Stop You From Becoming A Millionaire</a></em> Why do we find it so hard to release when a relationship ends? :-) yes.. the why questions…

We get emotionally attached when we fall in love. Emotional attachment is wonderful when the relationship is in full bloom, but a great source of pain when the romance is over.

Great post.

Shamelle @ Enhance Life’s last blog post..6 Investment Misconceptions That Stop You From Becoming A Millionaire

]]> By: Natural Woman http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-432 Natural Woman Wed, 09 Apr 2008 03:10:26 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-432 JEMi, I really don't have any words to say, I do have tears to cry. You're mind blowing. I don't know what to say. Excellent post, great info. you always deliver and right on time. I have my bouts of tears over someone, but I'm able to move on and love again, even though no one will ever be him...shouldn't compare and funny thing is he's the one who can't let go now. we're friends, truly. <em>Natural Woman's last blog post..<a href='http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/job-security-in-a-hurting-economy/' rel="nofollow">Job Security In A Hurting Economy</a></em> JEMi, I really don’t have any words to say, I do have tears to cry. You’re mind blowing. I don’t know what to say. Excellent post, great info. you always deliver and right on time. I have my bouts of tears over someone, but I’m able to move on and love again, even though no one will ever be him…shouldn’t compare and funny thing is he’s the one who can’t let go now. we’re friends, truly.

Natural Woman’s last blog post..Job Security In A Hurting Economy

]]> By: apricot. http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-431 apricot. Tue, 08 Apr 2008 18:26:58 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-431 You brought back some old, forgotten about emotions for me. I haven't thought about this in a long time. It's both overwhelming & delightful to be reminded that I have come so far. You write so incredibly well! & when you write your first book, I'll be standing in line, waiting for an autograph & a "meet & greet" with the author. :] <em>apricot.'s last blog post..<a href='http://apricot-tea.com/2008/04/07/i-am-a-diarist-there-i-said-it/' rel="nofollow">I am a diarist. there; I said it.</a></em> You brought back some old, forgotten about emotions for me. I haven’t thought about this in a long time. It’s both overwhelming & delightful to be reminded that I have come so far.

You write so incredibly well! & when you write your first book, I’ll be standing in line, waiting for an autograph & a “meet & greet” with the author. :]

apricot.’s last blog post..I am a diarist. there; I said it.

]]> By: Alex Kay http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-429 Alex Kay Tue, 08 Apr 2008 07:18:48 +0000 http://www.inmyheels.com/survival-of-a-broken-heart-a-how-to-guide/#comment-429 Well then I want to tap your shoulder again - an eBook would definately be a good idea JEMi! Excellent writing as always, and I think you choose great topics to write about too. Props from one blogger to another, you're doing great! :) <em>Alex Kay's last blog post..<a href='http://www.justkeepthechange.com/how-learning-to-talk-woman-will-triple-your-success-with-women' rel="nofollow">How Learning to ?Talk Woman? will Triple Your Success with Women</a></em> Well then I want to tap your shoulder again - an eBook would definately be a good idea JEMi!

Excellent writing as always, and I think you choose great topics to write about too.

Props from one blogger to another, you’re doing great! :)
Alex Kay’s last blog post..How Learning to ?Talk Woman? will Triple Your Success with Women

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