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	<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 00:42:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-705</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 00:06:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i just told my boyfriend i need to move out last night. It was the second time he was physically abusive and, having a daughter together, i knew it was time to go. Today, after the beer wore off, he is the kindest, most gentlest soul. Nuzzling me, and telling me he loves me 5 times in a row. Its so confusing, because this is the man i fell for... but i know when i get home tonight and he has a couple beers in him, it will be a whole different story. Thanks for writing this article, its helps me to have the courage to stand my ground, and be a strong woman for my daughter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i just told my boyfriend i need to move out last night. It was the second time he was physically abusive and, having a daughter together, i knew it was time to go. Today, after the beer wore off, he is the kindest, most gentlest soul. Nuzzling me, and telling me he loves me 5 times in a row. Its so confusing, because this is the man i fell for&#8230; but i know when i get home tonight and he has a couple beers in him, it will be a whole different story. Thanks for writing this article, its helps me to have the courage to stand my ground, and be a strong woman for my daughter.</p>
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		<title>By: Tips for Life, Love, You. &#124; Loving Someone Who Doesn&#8217;t Love You Back at InMyHeels.com</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-685</link>
		<dc:creator>Tips for Life, Love, You. &#124; Loving Someone Who Doesn&#8217;t Love You Back at InMyHeels.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 18:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Dapo of The Yupp Lounge</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-382</link>
		<dc:creator>Dapo of The Yupp Lounge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I personally dont have a high tolerance for BS. I also don't take anything for granted nor do I assume that the respect shown will be reciprocated. With this being said, I tread lightly when in a relationship. This has led to me breaking up with some very great girls who may have just screwed up once or twice. 

My thing is...if you screw up I'll prob forgive you (depending on the screw up ofcourse) but the 2nd go-around is going to be way tougher than the 1st. The 2nd go around usually ends bitterly because some trust was lost after the first screw up.

Is it possible to forgive someone and not trust them anymore? i definitely think so. is that ok though? i dont think so...mainly because it hasnt worked out for me so far. Maybe it's better to just end things after the first screw up :-\

&lt;em&gt;Dapo of The Yupp Lounge's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://theyupplounge.com/2008/03/31/want-to-be-the-worlds-greatest-bimbo/' rel="nofollow"&gt;Want to be the World's Greatest Bimbo?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I personally dont have a high tolerance for BS. I also don&#8217;t take anything for granted nor do I assume that the respect shown will be reciprocated. With this being said, I tread lightly when in a relationship. This has led to me breaking up with some very great girls who may have just screwed up once or twice. </p>
<p>My thing is&#8230;if you screw up I&#8217;ll prob forgive you (depending on the screw up ofcourse) but the 2nd go-around is going to be way tougher than the 1st. The 2nd go around usually ends bitterly because some trust was lost after the first screw up.</p>
<p>Is it possible to forgive someone and not trust them anymore? i definitely think so. is that ok though? i dont think so&#8230;mainly because it hasnt worked out for me so far. Maybe it&#8217;s better to just end things after the first screw up :-\</p>
<p><em>Dapo of The Yupp Lounge&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://theyupplounge.com/2008/03/31/want-to-be-the-worlds-greatest-bimbo/' rel="nofollow">Want to be the World&#8217;s Greatest Bimbo?</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: My-Personal-Growth.com</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-379</link>
		<dc:creator>My-Personal-Growth.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 08:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;My-Personal-Growth.com...&lt;/strong&gt;

Think of the worst situation that can result after the self- improvement. Try to find various solutions to it. Reflect on how much you can loose, if the worst happened, and how important those things are to you. If you find more than one reasonable sol...</description>
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<p>Think of the worst situation that can result after the self- improvement. Try to find various solutions to it. Reflect on how much you can loose, if the worst happened, and how important those things are to you. If you find more than one reasonable sol&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: leah</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-261</link>
		<dc:creator>leah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 13:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i had a bad relationship when i was still in high school. we lasted for 3y and 10m.  the guy was cheating on me. but i didn't noticed it or i didn't want to know. he was cheating on me with my friends. stupid me. i decided to end it when a girl texted me that she has a relationship with my ex-bf. they were having this relationship for almost 1y and 3m. i confronted the guy and he admitted. it was so devastating and heartbreaking. i felt so much pain. i felt betrayed. So, I decided to end it all. 
Thanks for the post.

&lt;em&gt;leah's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://asecretplacebyleah.blogspot.com/2008/03/imagine.html' rel="nofollow"&gt;Power of Imagination&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i had a bad relationship when i was still in high school. we lasted for 3y and 10m.  the guy was cheating on me. but i didn&#8217;t noticed it or i didn&#8217;t want to know. he was cheating on me with my friends. stupid me. i decided to end it when a girl texted me that she has a relationship with my ex-bf. they were having this relationship for almost 1y and 3m. i confronted the guy and he admitted. it was so devastating and heartbreaking. i felt so much pain. i felt betrayed. So, I decided to end it all.<br />
Thanks for the post.</p>
<p><em>leah&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://asecretplacebyleah.blogspot.com/2008/03/imagine.html' rel="nofollow">Power of Imagination</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: castocreations</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-242</link>
		<dc:creator>castocreations</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 23:40:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow...it is very difficult to admit that a relationship is broken beyond repair. Often times abuse is impossible to recognize from the inside. Sadly, I managed to end up in two abusive relationships. One ended quickly, though nearly violently. The second took 4 years. Before I was able to move on I had to come to terms with myself - as a person and a woman. Independent of anyone else. Reliant on myself. It's scary and definitely not easy. But it can be done. Great post!

&lt;em&gt;castocreations's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://castocreationsjewelry.blogspot.com/2008/03/dont-be-fooled-watch-out-for-scams.html' rel="nofollow"&gt;Don't Be Fooled - Watch out for Scams&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230;it is very difficult to admit that a relationship is broken beyond repair. Often times abuse is impossible to recognize from the inside. Sadly, I managed to end up in two abusive relationships. One ended quickly, though nearly violently. The second took 4 years. Before I was able to move on I had to come to terms with myself - as a person and a woman. Independent of anyone else. Reliant on myself. It&#8217;s scary and definitely not easy. But it can be done. Great post!</p>
<p><em>castocreations&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://castocreationsjewelry.blogspot.com/2008/03/dont-be-fooled-watch-out-for-scams.html' rel="nofollow">Don&#8217;t Be Fooled - Watch out for Scams</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Alex Kay</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-232</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex Kay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 22:15:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A one sided relationship is the worst in my opinion. I have tried it a few times, and it's really awful. Unfortunately, it's also hard to see that it's the way it is, before it's too late. Great post JEMi, really enjoyed it :)

&lt;em&gt;Alex Kay's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://www.justkeepthechange.com/double-your-dating-ebook-review-learn-how-to-be-successful-with-women' rel="nofollow"&gt;Double Your Dating eBook Review - Learn How to Be Successful with Women&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A one sided relationship is the worst in my opinion. I have tried it a few times, and it&#8217;s really awful. Unfortunately, it&#8217;s also hard to see that it&#8217;s the way it is, before it&#8217;s too late. Great post JEMi, really enjoyed it <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<em>Alex Kay&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.justkeepthechange.com/double-your-dating-ebook-review-learn-how-to-be-successful-with-women' rel="nofollow">Double Your Dating eBook Review - Learn How to Be Successful with Women</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-222</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 15:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jemi, this is an awesome article.  I was in a relationship once where he couldn't trust me at all because he was so paranoid.  He loved me, but he tried everything to get me to stay in with him so I wouldn't go out with my friends.
He couldn't understand that if he's going to go out with his friends, I'm going to go out with mine.  I guess he didn't want me doing the things that he did when he was out....
Like I said, excellent article.  I'm glad we met over make-up midterm because I'm definitely going to be an active reader ;-) .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jemi, this is an awesome article.  I was in a relationship once where he couldn&#8217;t trust me at all because he was so paranoid.  He loved me, but he tried everything to get me to stay in with him so I wouldn&#8217;t go out with my friends.<br />
He couldn&#8217;t understand that if he&#8217;s going to go out with his friends, I&#8217;m going to go out with mine.  I guess he didn&#8217;t want me doing the things that he did when he was out&#8230;.<br />
Like I said, excellent article.  I&#8217;m glad we met over make-up midterm because I&#8217;m definitely going to be an active reader <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
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		<title>By: Tondy</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-220</link>
		<dc:creator>Tondy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 05:59:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Saw your comment on Natural's site.  I love that post so much.  I maybe running, who knows.  But let me tell you, You've described 90% of the people I know.

&lt;em&gt;Tondy's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/tondie/~3/242513008/awesome-weekend.html' rel="nofollow"&gt;Awesome Weekend!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Saw your comment on Natural&#8217;s site.  I love that post so much.  I maybe running, who knows.  But let me tell you, You&#8217;ve described 90% of the people I know.</p>
<p><em>Tondy&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/tondie/~3/242513008/awesome-weekend.html' rel="nofollow">Awesome Weekend!</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: JEMi</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/ending-a-bad-relationship/#comment-217</link>
		<dc:creator>JEMi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 04:07:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really appreciate everyone stopping by with their 2 cents.  I treasure 'em :)

Readers from Barbara's Blogging Without A Blog, I welcome you with open arms :)  Thank you for stopping by!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really appreciate everyone stopping by with their 2 cents.  I treasure &#8216;em <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Readers from Barbara&#8217;s Blogging Without A Blog, I welcome you with open arms <img src='http://www.inmyheels.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thank you for stopping by!</p>
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