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	<title>Comments on: Black Light: Dealing With Criticism</title>
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		<title>By: Links of Interest : Productivity501</title>
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		<dc:creator>Links of Interest : Productivity501</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 16:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Black Light: Dealing With Criticism-InMyHeels.com This article is a good resource for anyone who is dealing with heavy criticism in the workplace. It explains the difference between positive and negative criticism and how to discern the two. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: When Gossip Attacks: You at InMyHeels.com</title>
		<link>http://www.inmyheels.com/black-light-dealing-with-criticism/#comment-41</link>
		<dc:creator>When Gossip Attacks: You at InMyHeels.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2008 19:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] pretend that this is a simple situation because truth be told, anything that has to do with being criticized and having your feelings hurt is, by nature, a difficult thing to deal with.  But I CAN suggest a [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Megan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 16:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whew!!!! JEMi!!!

Once again, right on time!  You are speaking the language I needed to hear today.  I received a pejorative email about a post I made in an online discussion group I'm a part of.  One person, I'm not sure if she's a moderator or not, just criticizes to the gods!!!!!  This isn't the first email that I've read of hers.  Part of me thinks she delights in catching and putting on blast people's faults.  I really don't know for sure, but this is what it feels like to me.

My initial gut feeling was to say something in return.  I didn't want to speak to her directly, but I did want to clear up some of the extremes that she was tooting about my post.  Now, grant it, people are going to believe whatever they want, and I can't force anyone to read what I write, but I definitely want to clear any air where I feel like I may have been falsely accused or falsely represented.

OK, it appears as if I'm venting a bit.

I'll stop here *gasp* *exhale* *smile*--lol

Thank you for ministering to me this morning with this post.  It has really helped me a lot today!

Here's a multitude of love and hugs!!!

Megan
http://www.TheLawofAttractionStation.com</description>
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<p>Once again, right on time!  You are speaking the language I needed to hear today.  I received a pejorative email about a post I made in an online discussion group I&#8217;m a part of.  One person, I&#8217;m not sure if she&#8217;s a moderator or not, just criticizes to the gods!!!!!  This isn&#8217;t the first email that I&#8217;ve read of hers.  Part of me thinks she delights in catching and putting on blast people&#8217;s faults.  I really don&#8217;t know for sure, but this is what it feels like to me.</p>
<p>My initial gut feeling was to say something in return.  I didn&#8217;t want to speak to her directly, but I did want to clear up some of the extremes that she was tooting about my post.  Now, grant it, people are going to believe whatever they want, and I can&#8217;t force anyone to read what I write, but I definitely want to clear any air where I feel like I may have been falsely accused or falsely represented.</p>
<p>OK, it appears as if I&#8217;m venting a bit.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll stop here *gasp* *exhale* *smile*&#8211;lol</p>
<p>Thank you for ministering to me this morning with this post.  It has really helped me a lot today!</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a multitude of love and hugs!!!</p>
<p>Megan<br />
<a href="http://www.TheLawofAttractionStation.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.TheLawofAttractionStation.com</a></p>
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