Comments on: Beyond Recognition: Losing Yourself In a Relationship

By: Angel

Angel — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 03:30:50 +0000

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By: Tracy

Tracy — Wed, 17 Dec 2008 18:34:11 +0000

I have to admit it is very easy to lose yourself within a relationship. I was extremely guitly of this and when my marriage failed I was totally lost because of it.
But I did spend some time finding out who I was again and now my new relationship is going great and I always take time for myself and my dreams.

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By: Jamie

Jamie — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 22:29:03 +0000

I think it is especially hard to not lose yourself when you are in a long relationship, such as marriage. That is part of the work of a relationship~ keeping your personality separate and healthy.

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By: Nathalie Lussier from Billionaire Woman

Nathalie Lussier from Billionaire Woman — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 13:53:36 +0000

Great article JEMi! I think we are often easily lost, ourselves. I mean, it is so easy to fall into someone else, especially if we don’t love ourselves in the first place.

This is a topic that needed to be discussed in the open, and you did a great job of it!
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By: Barbara Swafford

Barbara Swafford — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 22:41:27 +0000

Hi JEMi,

This is such an eyeopening post. Too often women lose their own identity in a relationship, and when it’s all over they say, “what was I thinking”. Unfortunately in the desire to be with someone, women (and men, too) make compromises. Your words are a great reminder that it’s more important to be strong in ourselves, and find someone who accepts us just as we are.

In my marriage we accept each other as we are, and it’s awesome.

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By: Tom Stine | Spiritual Life Coach

Tom Stine | Spiritual Life Coach — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 02:34:40 +0000

Hey JEMi, I know I’m a guy, and this was written for women, but dang, that was good. It kept staring at me in my feed reader saying “read me.” So, I did. Okay, confession: guys can do the same stuff.
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By: Shamelle -TheEnhanceLife

Shamelle -TheEnhanceLife — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 04:24:29 +0000

I nodded my head several times reading your post. What you mention here is very real and we are so blinded that we don’t realize it…., until its too late.

Good, awaking post.

Thank you
Shamelle

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By: Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Map

Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Map — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 15:11:15 +0000

Great tips and advice here! I’ve been in bad relationships before so I know how it feels like to be losing myself. On hindsight, it was a good thing that they didn’t develop further either. Holding on would mean not creating a space for the right one to come along!

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By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 16:57:36 +0000

Thanks for the article. This just confirms what I already knew. I just got out of a 8 month relationship, it was the most painful one I’ve ever been in. Trying to make someone love you back to no avail is worse than than having them cheat on you. At least for me it was. I can’t tell you how horrible it made me feel that I was never good enough for him. I can’t understand why. He couldn’t just let me know that I never stood a chance, instead he used me for 8 months and let me believe the whole time that it might work. I know I was stupid, doing the kind of things that I would lecture any other self-respecting woman for doing but I just wanted him to feel something for me. I took anything I could, every compliment, phone call, or look in the eye and tried to reassure myself maybe he was starting to care for me too. I broke up with him three times because I was going crazy knowing he didn’t consider me important but always got right back with him as soon as I had the chance. I would ask him the just leave me alone, that I can’t seem to say no to him so would he please just never call me again so I can stop hurting myself in this relationship. I know most woman will read this and think i’m pathetic but, I can tell you I was never like this before him. I still can’t believe a woman like myself let him treat me that way. I know this is my fault, I don’t need anyone to tell me that. I KNOW, I just want to say that this article makes me feel better along with the one about loving someone that doesn’t love you. Thanks.

By: ann

ann — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 06:52:28 +0000

yeah im thinking im going through some things. he says i dont listen which i do alot or else ,i guess he would not be with me. and i really do love him , but is there really a pushing point of. a man putting his hands on you, ect pushing , throwing you, punching you, is pushing and throwing, any differnt than a black eye and a few knocked out teeth. i mean that has neva happend to me but. the pushing and throwing in to a wall has, and he says thats not even abuse. is that true. or am i trippin. like in lala land. i mean when you get in to a argument with your lover, sometimes you tend to say mean things to each other . which i can be harsh but usually its to deffend my self. and then he says that i push him to the limit , of pushing me or choking me but he leaves no marks what so eva. well any way. im at my witts end and i just need some help and encouragement or advice